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爸爸給兒子的話
各位來賓,大家好!
我十分感謝大家前來為杜□□、成□□的婚禮祝賀,我也想在這個(gè)時(shí)候?qū)Χ拧酢酢⒊伞酢跽f一些實(shí)話,也希望攝像師能夠把我說的話全文記錄下來。我提三點(diǎn)希望。
第一、希望你能進(jìn)步
我們父子因?yàn)楣ぷ鞣泵,平時(shí)很少見面和交流。想想杜□□的成長(zhǎng),你的爺爺奶奶一輩和父母一輩對(duì)你的付出巨大。經(jīng)過兩代人的努力,才為你創(chuàng)造了一個(gè)穩(wěn)定的工作環(huán)境,這一點(diǎn)你要珍重!
今天你成家了,但不能忘了立業(yè)。你應(yīng)該通過自己的努力不斷進(jìn)步,超過你的父輩。我們這代人與你的爺爺奶奶一輩比就是收入和生活水平超過了他們,但是其他方面不敢說超過他們。他們辛苦養(yǎng)育了三個(gè)孩子,同時(shí)還獲得了大學(xué)學(xué)歷和高級(jí)技術(shù)職稱,并且還培養(yǎng)了兩個(gè)77級(jí)大學(xué)生。這一點(diǎn)我們這一輩人比不了。但是我希望你能夠超過我們這一輩,希望以后能夠聽到你進(jìn)步的消息,那我們會(huì)感到無比的欣慰!
第二、希望你們能進(jìn)步
今天以后,你們就是獨(dú)立撐起門面的戶主了,因?yàn)槎拧酢跞⒘顺伞酢踹@樣的好妻子,有人管你了,你們有自己的家了,不用我們?cè)俨傩牧恕?/p>
結(jié)婚是人生的一個(gè)里程碑,也是事業(yè)的新起點(diǎn)。人對(duì)生活都有美好的追求,但要獲得美好富足的生活就要以事業(yè)為先,要有敬業(yè)精神。因?yàn)橹挥芯礃I(yè)和事業(yè)上的進(jìn)步,才是你們獲得美好富足生活的唯一源泉。你們不要想通過其它途徑提高自己的生活水平,不要在沒有能力的情況下消費(fèi)未來。好高騖遠(yuǎn),不切實(shí)際、盲目攀比、想入非非,都會(huì)使你們走彎路,而走彎路會(huì)軟化進(jìn)取心,也會(huì)錯(cuò)過很多機(jī)會(huì)。
機(jī)會(huì)對(duì)于人生來說就那么幾次。我覺得這一點(diǎn)你們應(yīng)該向爺爺奶奶一輩和我們這一輩學(xué)習(xí)。你們應(yīng)該把我們家族的優(yōu)良傳統(tǒng)發(fā)揚(yáng)光大下去,比如事業(yè)為先和敬業(yè)精神,比如善于抓住機(jī)會(huì),改變自己的命運(yùn)等等。這需要你們?cè)诠ぷ髦心_踏實(shí)地、兢兢業(yè)業(yè),尊重領(lǐng)導(dǎo),團(tuán)結(jié)同志,要有如履薄冰的態(tài)度。這些話,在這個(gè)場(chǎng)合從我的口中說出來,絕不是空話套話!牢記這些話,并努力實(shí)踐,你們才能比翼齊飛。
第三、希望你們能共同進(jìn)步
你們雖然長(zhǎng)大成家了,但你們還很年輕。在今后的人生道路上,你們肯定會(huì)遇到這樣或那樣的困難或者挫折。只要你們能夠共同面對(duì)困難和挫折,互相扶助,互相理解,互相寬容就能戰(zhàn)勝任何困難和挫折。這一點(diǎn)你們尤其要記祝
你們?nèi)绻诠ぷ魃献鞒隽顺煽?jī),生活水平有了提高,首先應(yīng)當(dāng)歸功于國(guó)家的富強(qiáng),歸功于單位領(lǐng)導(dǎo)和同志們的提攜和幫助,不要數(shù)典忘祖,自以為是。
在處理人際關(guān)系時(shí),要做到:與領(lǐng)導(dǎo)共事不爭(zhēng)高低短長(zhǎng)東西南北,和同事相處不作前倨后恭酒肉朋友,夫妻之間不爭(zhēng)對(duì)錯(cuò)是非你大我校要學(xué)會(huì)原諒,學(xué)會(huì)容忍,學(xué)會(huì)放棄,學(xué)會(huì)忘記。把事業(yè)和進(jìn)取牢記心中,時(shí)刻牢記自己是平民百姓的孩子。只有這樣你們才能共同進(jìn)步。
最后,祝你們共同的生活風(fēng)和日麗,晴空萬(wàn)里!祝你們共同的事業(yè)蒸蒸日上,百尺竿頭!
謝謝大家!
經(jīng)過上述對(duì)于婚禮致辭的欣賞來看,可以借鑒給新郎的父親哦
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽陌生的歌,然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長(zhǎng)生不老,不是大魚大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃,想被愛的時(shí)候有人來愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí),而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過去中,人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人,再用一天的時(shí)間去愛上一個(gè)人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富,它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛,但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),終于領(lǐng)悟到愛一個(gè)人,就算用一輩子的時(shí)間,還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人,體諒這個(gè)人,直到愛上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不www.zzlgroo.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺中已被時(shí)間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車?yán)铮c相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí),仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺,而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng),在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛一個(gè)人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛是俯視而生,而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛情是你通過一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界,壞的愛情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方,獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么,不知道是誰(shuí),不知道如何去愛,也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒有人?墒牵@種等待,就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛的很深,很深,來日歲月,會(huì)讓你知道,它不過很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛,必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上,只有真正快樂的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒有感性,就要理性;如果沒有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛情,需要的不是傷心,而是時(shí)間,一段可以用來遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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