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男人最討厭聽到的話
一、勸老公爭(zhēng)取升職、加薪或跳槽
“小周的老公都漲兩次工資了，你得學(xué)著主動(dòng)跟老板提”、“這職位就該是你的，找你們領(lǐng)導(dǎo)說(shuō)去”、“別在這個(gè)破單位干了，有什么前途氨……
“雖說(shuō)‘夫榮妻貴’很在理，但是天天念叨丈夫的職位、薪水，只能說(shuō)明這個(gè)妻子過于苛求�！鄙虾Ｐ睦碜稍冃袠I(yè)協(xié)會(huì)會(huì)長(zhǎng)王裕如說(shuō)，現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)是男女平等的時(shí)代，但很多女性的固有觀念還是認(rèn)為男人應(yīng)該是家里的經(jīng)濟(jì)支柱，這會(huì)給丈夫帶來(lái)很大壓力�！拔遗龅竭^很聰明的妻子，在丈夫面臨關(guān)鍵晉升時(shí)，非但不給他壓力，反而說(shuō)，你能到今天的位置已經(jīng)很不容易，我知足了。這樣既維護(hù)了夫妻感情，又給了丈夫?yàn)榧彝^斗的信心�！�
二、數(shù)落老公的母親，或不停拿自己與之比較
“你媽怎么這樣氨、“你都多大了你媽還管你”、“我和你媽，你更愛誰(shuí)”……
千萬(wàn)別當(dāng)面批評(píng)他的母親，很多男人嘴上不說(shuō)，其實(shí)把“媽”看得非常重。王裕如接觸過很多丈夫主動(dòng)提出離婚案例，原因就是妻子對(duì)婆婆不夠尊重。女人也不要總拿自己和婆婆比，畢竟“媽”的地位是無(wú)法取代的。嘗試讓丈夫看到，你在努力營(yíng)造和諧的婆媳關(guān)系，這樣不管結(jié)果如何他都會(huì)感激你。
三、我們需要談?wù)?/p>
“你從來(lái)不好好聽我說(shuō)”、“你就不能聽我把話說(shuō)完嗎”、“關(guān)于孩子的事，我們得坐下來(lái)好好談?wù)劇薄?/p>
有研究顯示，男性平均每天說(shuō)2000個(gè)單詞，而女性要說(shuō)7000個(gè)。男性在上班時(shí)把2000個(gè)詞說(shuō)完后，往往回家就不愿意多說(shuō)了，而女人多出來(lái)的5000個(gè)詞還“沒有著落”。王裕如說(shuō)，女人擺出“需要談?wù)劇钡募軇?shì)，其實(shí)不是想“平等的談”，而是想“教育”男人。美國(guó)西雅圖華盛頓大學(xué)社會(huì)學(xué)教授、《愛在平等間：如何真正讓婚姻平等》一書的作者、哲學(xué)博士佩伯·施沃茲指出，需要交談時(shí)不妨對(duì)丈夫說(shuō)，“這對(duì)我真的很重要，希望你能理解”，以營(yíng)造平等的交談關(guān)系。
四、嘲諷老公的品味、飲食喜好或生活習(xí)慣
“你怎么穿成這樣就出門了”、“別吃XX了，多臟氨、“你這臭毛病跟誰(shuí)學(xué)的氨……
雖然許多男人在吃飯、穿衣等方面沒有女人講究，但如果妻子時(shí)常品頭論足，還是會(huì)招致他們反感。尤其要注意的是，不要把他的飲食習(xí)慣或不良嗜好作為話題公開談?wù)�。他向你傾訴的事，并非要你“廣而告之”街坊、朋友，男人最忌妻子在朋友面前經(jīng)常提及他的“秘密”，尤其是他的壞習(xí)慣。
五、時(shí)常在老公面前夸獎(jiǎng)別的男人
“人家比你年輕，現(xiàn)在已經(jīng)是處級(jí)了”、“看人家小王老公，又給他買輛新車”、“你看XX(前男友)現(xiàn)在混得多好”……
不要對(duì)比他的缺點(diǎn)來(lái)夸獎(jiǎng)另一位男士，他會(huì)感到被看不起和被奚落。男性通常對(duì)同性缺乏安全感，若你拿別的男士的優(yōu)點(diǎn)來(lái)和他作比較，可能會(huì)令他忐忑不安。因此，盡量少拿丈夫跟別的男人比。當(dāng)然，如果你能發(fā)現(xiàn)他的優(yōu)點(diǎn)，不妨?xí)r常用比較的方法夸夸他。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路，看陌生的風(fēng)景，聽陌生的歌，然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)，原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福，不是長(zhǎng)生不老，不是大魚大肉，不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃，想被愛的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛情是燈，友情是影子，當(dāng)燈滅了，你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周圍都是影子。朋友，是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí)，而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛情，要么讓人成熟，要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重，舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重�？上В蠖鄶�(shù)人的愛情，都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過去中，人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人，用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人，再用一天的時(shí)間去愛上一個(gè)人，到最后呢，卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛上很多的人，等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后，你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富，它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛，但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng)，終于領(lǐng)悟到愛一個(gè)人，就算用一輩子的時(shí)間，還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人，體諒這個(gè)人，直到愛上為止，是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天，最后成為記憶里不www.zzlgroo.com再重要的某一天，我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺中已被時(shí)間推著向前走，這不是靜止火車?yán)�，與相鄰列車交錯(cuò)時(shí)，仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺，而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng)，在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開我就別安慰我，要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的，不要忘記。不能得到的，更要珍惜。屬于自己的，不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的，留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離，這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛一個(gè)人，充滿變數(shù)，我于是后退一步，靜靜的看著，直到看見真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛是俯視而生，而女人的愛是仰視而生。如果愛情像座山，那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多，而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛情是你通過一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界，壞的愛情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前，應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方，獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛。不知道是什么，不知道是誰(shuí)，不知道如何去愛，也不知道可以愛多久。只是等待一次愛情，也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒有人。可是，這種等待，就是愛情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重，很重，是世上最重的重量。有一天，暮然回首，我們才發(fā)現(xiàn)，它一直都是很輕，很輕的。我們以為愛的很深，很深，來(lái)日歲月，會(huì)讓你知道，它不過很淺，很淺。最深和最重的愛，必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上，只有真正快樂的男人，才能帶給女人真正的快樂。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感，就要感性;如果沒有感性，就要理性;如果沒有理性，就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒有了，她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛情，需要的不是傷心，而是時(shí)間，一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心，需要的不是同情，而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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