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和女性聊天的話題
介紹下你自己,讓對(duì)方對(duì)你沒(méi)有防備,用語(yǔ)不要太過(guò)耍賴,要讓對(duì)方覺(jué)得真誠(chéng)。然后再問(wèn)對(duì)方的職業(yè),之類(lèi)的情況,因此而打開(kāi)話題。不要一直提問(wèn)。你可以是不是用話題試探她,什么電影啊,動(dòng)漫啊,時(shí)尚啊,美劇啊,韓劇啊,旅行?傆兴哺信d趣的。
不要一上來(lái)就問(wèn)人家各種比較隱私的問(wèn)題,像居委會(huì)大媽查戶口一樣。
適當(dāng)?shù)挠哪灰谩昂呛,嘿嘿”之?lèi)的回復(fù),也不要單純用表情回復(fù)。
大部分女孩子都是喜歡幽默,有風(fēng)度的帥哥,當(dāng)然不排除有其他嗜好的,畢竟那些只是少數(shù),首先我認(rèn)為應(yīng)該表現(xiàn)出自己的個(gè)性或者說(shuō)特點(diǎn),如果她感興趣,哪怕是一點(diǎn)點(diǎn),機(jī)會(huì)就來(lái)了,這就是第一印象的重要性。
如果她一開(kāi)始就沒(méi)有正眼瞧你,那就需要點(diǎn)技巧了,選擇話題要謹(jǐn)慎,禁談生活方面的,什么訴苦啊,多愁善感啊,能不用就不用,現(xiàn)在的女孩都煩這個(gè),多找一些開(kāi)心的話題,先讓她放松警惕,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)她慢慢的就融入進(jìn)來(lái)了,這時(shí)就選擇的余地就多的是拉,
還有實(shí)在是不行,那就得讓時(shí)間來(lái)說(shuō)話了,軟磨硬套,過(guò)程可能是慘不忍睹的,結(jié)果出人意料的是數(shù)不勝數(shù)埃
1)工作上的話題
2)她的喜好
3)她的偶像
4)寵物
5)服飾/化妝品
6)幽默的笑話
7)電影/音樂(lè)
8)日常生活的趣事
9)心事
不需造作和夸張,有心就好了,她會(huì)感受到你的誠(chéng)意。
得空贊贊她美麗、可愛(ài)。分擔(dān)她的困難。畢竟,女生要的是一個(gè)可以逗她開(kāi)心,也可以分擔(dān)困難的男朋友
通常,大家最關(guān)心的大多是自己的問(wèn)題,只要問(wèn)對(duì)問(wèn)題,凝神傾聽(tīng),以方一定視我們?yōu)橹,然后有所回?bào),讓我們有機(jī)會(huì)表達(dá)自己,一來(lái)一往互動(dòng),初次約會(huì)的陌生尷尬,很成為促膝長(zhǎng)談。下面是可以促進(jìn)親密關(guān)系的話題:
1、你從事什么工作?(為什么喜歡這個(gè)工作?當(dāng)中有什么最大挑戰(zhàn)?有何最大挫折?對(duì)于工作、未來(lái)有什么憧憬?)
2、至目前為止,生活中有什么重林成就?(有沒(méi)有什么重大挫折?)
3、最熱愛(ài)什么?(為什么有興趣)
4、去年有什么印象最深的喜事?(或不幸的事呢?)
5、用工作,你會(huì)做什么事?
6、你喜歡如何度假?
7、想成名嗎?(為什么)
8、如果你有一百萬(wàn),會(huì)怎么用?
9、家庭里,你從小到大的成長(zhǎng)歷程,情形如何?
10、成長(zhǎng)歷程里,你有什么個(gè)性優(yōu)點(diǎn)?(有沒(méi)有害怕的缺點(diǎn)?)
11、你希望發(fā)展出什么樣的關(guān)系?
12、你浪漫嗎?(如何浪漫?)
13、你以為男、女有什么不同之處?
14、什么事會(huì)讓你高興?
15、什么事讓你傷悲?
16、小時(shí)候,你希望長(zhǎng)大后做什么?
17、你認(rèn)為,你眼別人有何不同?
18、你相信有神明嗎?(對(duì)神明有什么看法?)
19、在什么范圍里,你認(rèn)為自己的個(gè)人行為對(duì)改變社會(huì)有所影響?
20、你認(rèn)為,目前社會(huì)有什么重要事件?(可能的話,你會(huì)有什么行動(dòng)?)。
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非常經(jīng)典有深度的電影英文臺(tái)詞
1.一個(gè)人總要走陌生的路,看陌生的風(fēng)景,聽(tīng)陌生的歌,然后在某個(gè)不經(jīng)意的瞬間,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn),原本是費(fèi)盡心機(jī)想要忘記的事情真的就那么忘記了。
One is always on a strange road, watching strange scenery and listening to strange music. Then one day, you will find that the things you try hard to forget are already gone.
2.幸福,不是長(zhǎng)生不老,不是大魚(yú)大肉,不是權(quán)傾朝野。幸福是每一個(gè)微小的生活愿望達(dá)成。當(dāng)你想吃的時(shí)候有得吃,想被愛(ài)的時(shí)候有人來(lái)愛(ài)你。
Happiness is not about being immortal nor having food or rights in one's hand. It’s about having each tiny wish come true, or having something to eat when you are hungry or having someone's love when you need love.
3.愛(ài)情是燈,友情是影子,當(dāng)燈滅了,你會(huì)發(fā)現(xiàn)你的周?chē)际怯白印E笥,是在最后可以給你力量的人。
Love is a lamp, while friendship is the shadow. When the lamp is off,you will find the shadow everywhere. Friend is who can give you strength at last.
4.我愛(ài)你不是因?yàn)槟闶钦l(shuí),而是我在你面前可以是誰(shuí)。
I love you not for who you are, but for who I am before you.
5.愛(ài)情,要么讓人成熟,要么讓人墮落。
Love makes man grow up or sink down.
6.舉得起放得下的叫舉重,舉得起放不下的叫負(fù)重?上,大多數(shù)人的愛(ài)情,都是負(fù)重的。
If you can hold something up and put it down, it is called weight-lifting; if you can hold something up but can never put it down,it's called burden-bearing. Pitifully, most of people are bearing heavy burdens when they are in love.
7.我們每個(gè)人都生活在各自的過(guò)去中,人們會(huì)用一分鐘的時(shí)間去認(rèn)識(shí)一個(gè)人,用一小時(shí)的時(shí)間去喜歡一個(gè)人,再用一天的時(shí)間去愛(ài)上一個(gè)人,到最后呢,卻要用一輩子的時(shí)間去忘記一個(gè)人。
We all live in the past. We take a minute to know someone, one hour to like someone, and one day to love someone, but the whole life to forget someone.
8.一個(gè)人一生可以愛(ài)上很多的人,等你獲得真正屬于你的幸福之后,你就會(huì)明白一起的傷痛其實(shí)是一種財(cái)富,它讓你學(xué)會(huì)更好地去把握和珍惜你愛(ài)的人。
One may fall in love with many people during the lifetime. When you finally get your own happiness, you will understand the previous sadness is kind of treasure, which makes you better to hold and cherish the people you love.
9.年輕的時(shí)候會(huì)想要談很多次戀愛(ài),但是隨著年齡的增長(zhǎng),終于領(lǐng)悟到愛(ài)一個(gè)人,就算用一輩子的時(shí)間,還是會(huì)嫌不夠。慢慢地去了解這個(gè)人,體諒這個(gè)人,直到愛(ài)上為止,是需要有非常寬大的胸襟才行。
When you are young, you may want several love experiences. But as time goes on, you will realize that if you really love someone, the whole life will not be enough. You need time to know, to forgive and to love. All this needs a very big mind.
10.當(dāng)明天變成了今天成為了昨天,最后成為記憶里不www.zzlgroo.com再重要的某一天,我們突然發(fā)現(xiàn)自己在不知不覺(jué)中已被時(shí)間推著向前走,這不是靜止火車(chē)?yán),與相鄰列車(chē)交錯(cuò)時(shí),仿佛自己在前進(jìn)的錯(cuò)覺(jué),而是我們真實(shí)的在成長(zhǎng),在這件事里成了另一個(gè)自己。
When tomorrow turns in today, yesterday, and someday that no more important in your memory, we suddenly realize that we are pushed forward by time. This is not a train in still in which you may feel forward when another train goes by. It is the truth that we've all grown up. And we become different.
11.離開(kāi)我就別安慰我,要知道每一次縫補(bǔ)也會(huì)遭遇穿刺的痛。
If you leave me, please don't comfort me because each sewing has to meet stinging pain.
12.曾經(jīng)擁有的,不要忘記。不能得到的,更要珍惜。屬于自己的,不要放棄。已經(jīng)失去的,留作回憶。
Don’t forget the things you once you owned. Treasure the things youcan’t get. Don't give up the things that belong to you and keep those lost things in memory.
13.我喜歡并習(xí)慣了對(duì)變化的東西保持著距離,這樣才會(huì)知道什么是最不會(huì)被時(shí)間拋棄的準(zhǔn)則。比如愛(ài)一個(gè)人,充滿變數(shù),我于是后退一步,靜靜的看著,直到看見(jiàn)真誠(chéng)的感情。
I love and am used to keeping a distance with those changed things.Only in this way can I know what will not be abandoned by time. For example, when you love someone, changes are all around. Then I step backward and watching it silently, then I see the true feelings.
14.男人的愛(ài)是俯視而生,而女人的愛(ài)是仰視而生。如果愛(ài)情像座山,那么男人越往上走可以俯視的女人就越多,而女人越往上走可以仰視的男人就越少。
Men love from overlooking while women love from looking up. If love is a mountain, then if men go up, more women they will see while women will see fewer men.
15.好的愛(ài)情是你通過(guò)一個(gè)人看到整個(gè)世界,壞的愛(ài)情是你為了一個(gè)人舍棄世界。
Good love makes you see the whole world from one person while bad love makes you abandon the whole world for one person.
16.在自己面前,應(yīng)該一直留有一個(gè)地方,獨(dú)自留在那里。然后去愛(ài)。不知道是什么,不知道是誰(shuí),不知道如何去愛(ài),也不知道可以愛(ài)多久。只是等待一次愛(ài)情,也許永遠(yuǎn)都沒(méi)有人。可是,這種等待,就是愛(ài)情本身。
We shall always save a place for ourselves, only for ourselves. And then begin to love. Have no idea of what it is, who he is, how to love or how long it will be. Just wait for one love. Maybe no one will come out, but this kind of waiting is the love itself.
17.有誰(shuí)不曾為那暗戀而痛苦?我們總以為那份癡情很重,很重,是世上最重的重量。有一天,暮然回首,我們才發(fā)現(xiàn),它一直都是很輕,很輕的。我們以為愛(ài)的很深,很深,來(lái)日歲月,會(huì)讓你知道,它不過(guò)很淺,很淺。最深和最重的愛(ài),必須和時(shí)日一起成長(zhǎng)。
Is there anyone who hasn't suffered for the secret love? We always think that love is very heavy, heavy and could be the heaviest thing in the world. But one day, when you look back, you suddenly realize that it's always light, light. We all thought love was very deep, but in fact it's very thin. The deepest and heaviest love must grow up withthe time.
18.在這個(gè)世界上,只有真正快樂(lè)的男人,才能帶給女人真正的快樂(lè)。
In this world, only those men who really feel happy can give women happiness
19.女人如果不性感,就要感性;如果沒(méi)有感性,就要理性;如果沒(méi)有理性,就要有自知之明;如果連這個(gè)都沒(méi)有了,她只有不幸。
If a woman is not sexy, she needs emotion; if she is not emotional, she needs reason; if she is not reasonable, she has to know herself clearly. coz only she has is misfortune.
20.一段不被接受的愛(ài)情,需要的不是傷心,而是時(shí)間,一段可以用來(lái)遺忘的時(shí)間。一顆被深深傷了的心,需要的不是同情,而是理解。
An unacceptable love needs no sorrow but time- sometime for forgetting.A badly-hurt heart needs no sympathy but understanding.
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