雙語(yǔ)閱讀：讓你變得健談的方法

　　Are you a good conversationalist? What makes someone a good conversationalist? Being a good conversationalist is important in every context, be it in business, social, or dating. 你是不是一名好的健談?wù)�？什么能讓你變得健談呢？無(wú)論在何種情況下，作為一名好的健談?wù)叨际欠浅Ｖ匾�的，無(wú)論是商業(yè)、還是社交或是約會(huì)。

　　I don't think there are any “tricks” or shady techniques you have to apply to be a great conversationalist. Below are ten timeless rules I apply to all my conversations:我認(rèn)為要想成為好的健談?wù)�，不需要任何�?“招數(shù)”或不正當(dāng)?shù)氖址ā?/p>

　　1.Be genuinely interested in the person。對(duì)談話的人真正感興趣

　　Who is this person? What's on his/her mind? What does he/she enjoy doing? What motivates him/her in life? These are the questions I have for every single person I meet. Since people form the core of my life purpose （to help others grow）， my genuine interest in people, from who they are to what they do, comes naturally. 這個(gè)人是誰(shuí)？他/她在想什么？他/她喜歡做什么？什么激勵(lì)著他/她的生活？我每遇見(jiàn)一個(gè)人，我都會(huì)想這樣的問(wèn)題。由于人們形成了我生活目標(biāo)的核心（幫助他人成長(zhǎng)）， 我對(duì)他人的興趣，從他們是誰(shuí)到他們做什么，就很自然地產(chǎn)生了。

　　Such genuine interest, not an artificial one, is essential to making a conversation fly. If you are not interested in the other person, then why speak to him/her to begin with? Move on to someone you really want to talk to. Life is too short to be spent doing things you don't like。這樣的興趣是發(fā)自?xún)?nèi)心的，而不是虛假的， 這是讓談話出彩的必要條件。如果你對(duì)他人不敢興趣，為什么要和他/她說(shuō)話呢？去和你真正想談話的人說(shuō)話。生活苦短，不要把它浪費(fèi)在你不喜歡的事情上。

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