才能使你的這種交往與溝通能力得到提高從而上升一個(gè)層次,但是自己感覺(jué)還是有很多欠缺,過(guò)少就可能會(huì)給人留下沉默寡言不愛(ài)與人親近的印象,古語(yǔ)有云良言一句三冬暖惡語(yǔ)半字六月寒。
優(yōu)美的中英文句子
人際交往與溝通
人際交往與溝通,看起來(lái)是幾個(gè)比較抽象的字,但是通過(guò)這么多年的人生經(jīng)歷,我能夠感覺(jué)到它的重要性。在為人處世方面它是相當(dāng)?shù)闹匾,所以我個(gè)人覺(jué)得學(xué)好人與人之間交流與溝通的方式,將會(huì)為你以后的人生發(fā)展提供很大的便利。
舉一個(gè)很簡(jiǎn)單的例子,就拿中國(guó)沒(méi)有實(shí)行改革開(kāi)放以前來(lái)說(shuō),閉關(guān)鎖國(guó),不與外來(lái)國(guó)家往來(lái),思想與文化不交流與溝通,就很大程度的限制了中國(guó)的發(fā)展,中國(guó)好的思想無(wú)法流向外國(guó),而外國(guó)先進(jìn)的技術(shù)也沒(méi)有辦法進(jìn)入中國(guó),就有可能導(dǎo)致我國(guó)發(fā)展處于原地踏步狀態(tài)或者或處于落后狀態(tài),而自從實(shí)行改革開(kāi)放以來(lái)中國(guó)的一切都在迅猛的發(fā)展,吸收外國(guó)之精華而去其糟粕。何樂(lè)而不為呢!
通過(guò)這個(gè)例子明顯的可以看出國(guó)家與國(guó)家之間的交往與溝通也是很重要的,所以國(guó)家與國(guó)家之間都需要交往與溝通,那么人與人之間的交往與溝通也不能松懈啊,學(xué)習(xí)好人際間的交往和溝通更是重中之重啊,而我個(gè)人又覺(jué)得學(xué)習(xí)好人際間的交往與溝通并不是一件容易的事情。它即需要掌握技巧又需要不斷的鍛煉和實(shí)踐。才能使你的這種交往與溝通能力得到提高從而上升一個(gè)層次。
然而通過(guò)對(duì)這半個(gè)學(xué)期的《人際交往與溝通》這門選修課的學(xué)習(xí),我對(duì)人際間的交往與溝通有了更深的認(rèn)識(shí),其實(shí)這門課我以前也上過(guò),但是在不同的老師的傳授下效果是不同的?道蠋熃o我表現(xiàn)出來(lái)的那種語(yǔ)言魅力以及交往與溝通的方式很特別,康老師給我的第一映像就是那種開(kāi)朗能說(shuō)會(huì)道型的人才。康老師的出現(xiàn)總能讓課堂活躍起
來(lái),每一個(gè)動(dòng)作,每一個(gè)表情,每一句話都能讓我想到很多東西,收獲很多,盡管大部分人沒(méi)有響應(yīng)老師的話,都在埋頭不知道干啥,反正我是都在聽(tīng)。
我是專升本的學(xué)生,是土木專業(yè)的學(xué)生,從大一到現(xiàn)在先后進(jìn)行過(guò)了三次實(shí)習(xí),今年將要進(jìn)行第四次的實(shí)習(xí),深深得能夠體會(huì)到社會(huì)中人與人之間交往、溝通的重要性,不是件容易事啊,社會(huì)要比學(xué)校復(fù)雜的多,特別是對(duì)于內(nèi)向型性格的人,交往與溝通更是難啊,需要長(zhǎng)時(shí)間的鍛煉才行埃我就是這種人,但是通過(guò)大學(xué)這個(gè)舞臺(tái)的鍛煉,自己的人際交往與溝通能力還是提高了不少,性格也改變了很多。但是自己感覺(jué)還是有很多欠缺。不過(guò)相比大部分人還是可以的,比上不足比下有余吧。畢竟經(jīng)歷能夠促使人不斷成長(zhǎng),俗話說(shuō)吃一塹長(zhǎng)一智嗎!
交往與溝通的本意是人與人之間、人與群體之間思想感情的傳遞與反饋的過(guò)程,以求思想一致以及感情通暢。所以我覺(jué)得交往與溝通最重要的三個(gè)過(guò)程就是:1傾聽(tīng)(獲取信息)、2坦露(自我坦露)、3表達(dá)(向他人傳遞你的信息)
1、傾聽(tīng)
傾聽(tīng)作為建立和保持關(guān)系的一項(xiàng)基本技巧,同時(shí)也是交流溝通最重要的先決條件。不懂得傾聽(tīng)的人是讓人討厭厭煩的。同時(shí)傾聽(tīng)也分真傾聽(tīng)與假傾聽(tīng)。兩者之間的區(qū)別在于:前者是自我本意想要去傾聽(tīng),而后者傾聽(tīng)則帶有一定的目的性。最簡(jiǎn)單的真傾聽(tīng)的例子就是我在上康老師您的課的時(shí)候,因?yàn)槲倚枰治龊屠斫饽系恼n內(nèi)容的內(nèi)
涵,并且學(xué)習(xí)您課上的知識(shí)。而假傾聽(tīng),舉一個(gè)我親身經(jīng)歷過(guò)的例子:有一次我同宿舍的室友失戀了,心情郁悶的他向我大倒苦水。雖然我對(duì)他的那些牢騷提不起任何的“求知欲望”,但是礙于平時(shí)的“四大鐵”關(guān)系,我只能硬著頭皮“傾聽(tīng)”下去。整個(gè)談話從頭到尾我都是一種似聽(tīng)非聽(tīng),似懂非懂的狀態(tài)。通過(guò)學(xué)習(xí)了您的課讓我知道了,那其實(shí)是一種典型的假傾聽(tīng),而且產(chǎn)生這種情況的原因有兩種:
(1)我覺(jué)得作為他的朋友我應(yīng)該在他失意的時(shí)候幫助他
(2)而且我也不知道如何在不冒犯和傷害他的情況下脫身
上您的課給我最大的幫助就是讓我能從另外一個(gè)角度來(lái)進(jìn)行自我的剖析,原來(lái)我發(fā)現(xiàn)我也有輕微的傾聽(tīng)障礙。主要的表象特征為與人討論問(wèn)題的時(shí)候:第一過(guò)于的好為人師,第二就是特別愛(ài)與人爭(zhēng)辯,而爭(zhēng)辯到最后的結(jié)果就是爭(zhēng)吵,而在爭(zhēng)吵的過(guò)程中自己根本無(wú)法認(rèn)真分析和理解別人所說(shuō)的內(nèi)容,只是一味的強(qiáng)調(diào)自己的觀點(diǎn)。
內(nèi)在原因是我在坦蕩性傾聽(tīng)這一方面出現(xiàn)了問(wèn)題,很多人都害怕被人證明自己是錯(cuò)誤的,包括我在內(nèi),因?yàn)槲覀儼烟嗟乃^的自尊建立在自己永遠(yuǎn)正確的基礎(chǔ)上。其實(shí)換一個(gè)角度想一下,自尊是自己對(duì)自己的一種肯定與欣賞,與其把自己的自尊建立在永遠(yuǎn)正確的基礎(chǔ)上,還不如把自己變成一個(gè)永遠(yuǎn)追求真理的人。
2、自我坦露
自我坦露其實(shí)是一種由隱蔽的自我到公開(kāi)的自我的一個(gè)過(guò)程,每個(gè)人都有別人能夠看清而自己看不清自己的地方,反之亦然。而成功的自我坦露能夠使我們?cè)谀承⿻r(shí)候,卸下包袱減輕心中不必要的內(nèi)疚
感,最重要的是可以拉近溝通雙方的感情以及改善溝通的質(zhì)量。但是我們都知道任何事物都存在兩面性,同樣“自我坦露”也需要把握坦露的程度:
(1)自我公開(kāi):過(guò)多,會(huì)給人一種多嘴,不識(shí)趣,話嘮的感覺(jué)。過(guò)少,就可能會(huì)給人留下沉默寡言,不愛(ài)與人親近的印象。
(2)盲目自我:過(guò)大,你會(huì)無(wú)條件的認(rèn)同自己,完全沉浸在自己的世界里。過(guò)小,你就會(huì)過(guò)于嗜好自我分析,自我意識(shí)太強(qiáng)。
(3)隱蔽自我:太大,你就會(huì)過(guò)于孤僻而讓別人難以接近;太小,你就會(huì)給人一種無(wú)法信任的感覺(jué)。
就類似于課堂上的一個(gè)大四畢業(yè)生做自我介紹,一樣。這也需要不斷的練習(xí)和思考反復(fù)琢磨埃成功是經(jīng)過(guò)充足的準(zhǔn)備之后才能換來(lái)的,有時(shí)候即使準(zhǔn)備的再充分也會(huì)失敗,所以能要經(jīng)得住磨練埃
3、表達(dá)
表達(dá)本意是將自己的想法觀點(diǎn),以他人能夠接受的形式的信息反饋,它與傾聽(tīng)是一對(duì)孿生兄弟。同樣也是人際溝通中最基本且重要的技巧。古語(yǔ)有云:良言一句三冬暖,惡語(yǔ)半字六月寒。由此看見(jiàn)表達(dá)技巧在人際交流溝通的過(guò)程中是多么的重要。
這種方式課堂上也有練習(xí),老師讓兩個(gè)人做一個(gè)小的嘗試,一個(gè)人表達(dá)圖形的模樣而讓另外一個(gè)人根據(jù)所聽(tīng)到的內(nèi)容將圖形畫出來(lái),這兩個(gè)例子我都認(rèn)真地觀察啦,最主要的一個(gè)原因還是表達(dá),好的表達(dá)會(huì)讓人很清晰而且易懂,模糊的表達(dá)會(huì)讓別人一頭霧水,而且感到厭煩。
再比如說(shuō)在招聘會(huì)上,清晰的表達(dá)會(huì)讓招聘者對(duì)你有很深刻的印像,這樣一來(lái)你的成功率就會(huì)高很多,如果你表達(dá)模糊,而且語(yǔ)無(wú)倫次,那么就會(huì)使招聘者對(duì)你反感而把你淡忘。
最后通過(guò)這個(gè)學(xué)期的人際溝通與技巧這門課程的學(xué)習(xí),我真的有一種獲益匪淺的感覺(jué),這種收獲和以前的收獲是不同的,主要是老師的授課方式不同,再加上老師本人的說(shuō)話魅力讓我印象深刻,讓我從這門課上以及從老師身上學(xué)到了很多以前沒(méi)有學(xué)到的東西。
優(yōu)美的中英文句子之一
1.Youthiswastedontheyoung.
少年不懂惜韶華。2.Loveiswhenthedesiretobedesiredtakesyousobadlythatyoufeelyoucoulddieofit.
渴求被對(duì)方需要的念頭熱切得讓人痛苦,這就是愛(ài)。
3.Everythingwillbeokayintheend.Ifit'snotokay,it'snottheend.
一切都終會(huì)好的,若還不好,那這還不是結(jié)局。
4.Thetimeyoufeellonelyisthetimeyoumostneedtobebyyourself.
感到孤獨(dú)之時(shí),便是你最需獨(dú)處的時(shí)刻。
5.Itisbettertohavelovedandlostthannevertohavelovedatall.
愛(ài)了又失去,也好過(guò)從未愛(ài)過(guò)。
6.Whatalovelysurprisetofinallydiscoverhowunlonelybeingalonecanbe.獨(dú)處卻不覺(jué)孤寂,真是令人喜悅。
7.Painsoflovebesweeterfarthanallotherpleasuresare.
愛(ài)情的痛苦比世上所有快樂(lè)更甜美。8.Laughterisaninstantvacation.
笑一笑,身心輕松宛如度了個(gè)短假
精選英文中最優(yōu)美的句子
1.Youdon'tknowhowhighyoucanfly,
Untilyougivearealgoodtry.
Justdoyourbestineachtry,
Andforcetheskytoshiftalittlehigh.
2.Letamanwhohastomakehisfortuneinliferememberthismaxim:Attackingistheonlysecret.Dareandtheworldyields,orifitbeatsyousometimes,dareitagainandyouwillsucceed.
3.Youcan'thaveabettertomorrowif
youarethinkingaboutyesterdayallthetime.
So,forgetthepastandconcentrateonfuture.
4.Don'tmakeyou'refeelinglikeagarden,Everybodywalkonit.Butletitbelikesky,Everybodywishestotouchit.
Greatopportunitiestohelpothersseldomcome,
butsmallonessurrounduseveryday.
5.Whatevercomestousinlife,usuallycomesfirstinourmentality.Holdthepicture,theplanyouareresolvedtobe,andsticktoyourmentalplanofagloriousfuture.Donotgiveupinyourdiscouragedmomentsorallowanyobstaclestobluryourideals.Persistinvisualizingtheidealmanyouaredeterminedtobeandalwaysthinkofyourselfasyouareambitioustobecome.
http://www.zzlgroo.com stinysimplydependsonthestrengthofyourdreams.
Ifyoucryattroubleitgrowsdoubleandifyoulaughattroubleit
disappearslikeabubble.
7.Theworldisalookingglaandgivesbacktoeverymanthereflectionofhisownface.Frownatitanditwillinturnlooksourlyuponyou;laughatitandwithit,anditisajolly,kindcompanion.
8.InMathematicshalfplushalfisequaltoone.Butinthelifehalfplushalfwillneverbeequaltoone.
9.Gratitudeunlocksthefullneoflife.Itturnswhatwehaveintoenough,andmore.Itturnsdenialintoacceptance,chaostoorder,confusiontoclarity.Itcanturnamealintoafeast,ahouseintoahome,astrangerintoafriend.Gratitudemakessenseofourpast,bringspeacefortoday,andcreatesavisionfortomorrow.
10.Touchtheearthwithyourfeet,liftyourfacetothesun,breathetheair,listentothebirdsandthewindthroughthetrees.Gloryinthecreationthatsurroundsyou.
11.Lifeisexperienced,travelitwell.
12.Youcannotrunawayfromaweakness;youmustsometimesfightitoutorperish.Andifthatbeso,whynotnow,andwhereyoustand?
13.Inactionisnotonlytheresult,butthecause,offear.Perhapstheactionyoutakewillbesuccessful;perhapsdifferentactionoradjustmentswillhavetofollow.Butanyactionisbetterthannoactionatall.
14.Friendshipislikeabook,ittakesafewsecondstoburnbutittakes
yearstowrite.!
15.Don'tmixyourwordswithyourmoods,youcanchangeyourmood,butyoucan'ttakebackyourwords
16.Everygirlisn'tthesame&everyguyisn'tthesame.Sojustbecauseyou'vebeenhurtbysomeonedoesn'tmeanyouhavetopunishtheworld!
17.Sometimestherightpersonforyouwasthereallalong.Youjustdidn'tseeitbecausethewrongonewasblockingthesight.
18.Thebestwaytoappreciatewhatyouhaveistoimagineyourselfwithoutit
19.Letyourdreamsbebiggerthanyourfears,youractionslouderthanyourwordsandyourfaithstrongerthanyourfeelings.
20.Nowthatit'sallover,whatdidyoureallydoyesterdaythat'sworthmentioning?"
Aproductivedayproducesfruitfuldaysthatfollow.
21.Givethanksforwhatyouarenow,andkeepfightingforwhatyouwanttobetomorrow."
22.Eachofusmakeshisownweather,determinesthecoloroftheskiesintheemotionaluniversewhichheinhabits.
23.Ifamtosummarizeallihavelearntaboutlife,iwillsay"itgoeson".Sonomatterthesituation,justmoveandhavefaiththatallwillbewellsooon.Youcansitdownandcryallyoucanbutlifewillnot
waitforyou.Adjusttolifechangingsituationsandbeincontrol!!!!
24.Thefaultfinderwillfindfaultseveninparadise.
25.Respondintelligentlyeventounintelligenttreatment
26.Todayistheoldestyou'veeverbeenandtheyoungestyou'lleverbeagain.
27.Succedoesnothappenovernightitistheresultofcontinuanceenduranceandhardwork.Succeisacombinationofthoughts,wordsandactions.Luckhasnoroletoplayinsuccess.Onlyhardworkpays.Ifatallluckplaysaroleitisonlytemporary.Hurdlesandfailuresarethesteppingstonestosucceandfromfailuretofailurewehavetoproceedwithunquenchedenthusiasmandzealtoattainsucceinourendeavours.Actuallyfailureisnottheoppositeofsuccess,itisapartofsuccess."WayneScholtz
28."Startacceptingthingswhentheyarelethanperfect.Ibelievethatoneofthebiggestchallengesforpeople,includingmyself,whowanttoimprovethemselvesandimprovetheworldis,learningtoacceptthingsastheyare.Sometimesitsbettertoacceptandappreciateeverythingasitis,andpeopleastheyare,ratherthanneedingeverythingandeveryonetobetheimpossible.Idon'tbelieveinacceptingalifeofmediocrity,butsometimesweneedtolearntoloveandvaluethingswhentheyarelethanperfect."MarkesaYeager
29.Practiceasifyouaretheworst,performasifyouarethebest."
30."Thegramustbendwhenthewindblowsacroit
31."Themoretranquilamanbecomes,thegreaterishissuccess,hisinfluence,hispowerforgood.Calmneofmindisoneofthebeautifuljewelsofwisdom."
32.Rightatthismomentinyourlife,youareinauniquepositionthatyoumaynevereverbeinagain.Youhavenothingtolose.Everythingyouhaveacquiredofvalueislockedinsideyou.
33.Iwouldletnothingcomebetweenmeandthesubjectinhand.
34.Youdonotkeepanythingforaspecialoccasionbecauseeverydaythatyouliveisaspecialoccasion.
35.Donotdelayanythingthataddslaughterandjoytoyourlife.
36.Wearemorewholewhenwearemissingsomething.
37.Anupgradesupposedlyfixesallofthecurrentbugs.Oftentheupgradeintroducesnewbugs.
38.Lifeismorelikeabaseballseason,whereeventhebestteamlosesone-thirdofitsgamesandtheworstteamhasitsdaysofbrilliance.Ourgoalistowinmoregamesthanwelose.
39.Don’tletyourlifeslipthroughyourfingersbylivinginthepastorforthefuture.Bylivingyourlifeonedayatatime,youliveallthedaysofyourlife.
40.Nothingisreallyoveruntilthemomentyoustoptrying.
41.Youcan’tmakesomeoneloveyou,allyoucandoisbeingsomeonewhocanbeloved,andtherestisuptothepersontorealizeyourworth.
42.Don’tjuststandthere,DOSOMETHING!
43.Thetruejoyoflifeistrip.Thestationisonlyadream.Itconstantlyoutdistanceus.
44.Itisn’ttheburdensoftodaythatdrivemenmad.Itisregretsoveryesterdayandthefearoftomorrow.Regretandfeararetwinthieveswhorobusoftoday.
45.Perseverancecansometimesequalgeniusinitsresults.
46.Thereareonlytwocreatureswhocansurmountpyramids-theeagleandsnail.
47.Whoshutsloveout,inturnshallbeshutoutfromlove.
48.Don’teversaveanythingforaspecialoccasion.Everydayyouarealiveisaspecialoccasion.
49.Hekeptthedenttoremindhimnottogothroughlifesofastthatsomeonehastothrowabricktogetyourattention.
50.Lifeismixtureofgoodtimesandbadtimes,happymomentsandunhappymoments.
51.Likethebambootree,bend,butdon’tbreak.
52.“Stopmakingexcusesandstartlookingforsolutions!Thereisalwaysaway.Itmaynotbeexactlyhowyoupictureitinyourhead,
butifyoujuststart,you'llgetthere.”
~StephenieZamora
53.“There'snothingmoreintimateinlifethansimplybeingunderstoodandunderstandingsomeoneelse."
~Unknown
54.Peopleknowyouforwhatyou'vedone,notforwhatyouplantodo.-Anon
55."Theonlywayofdiscoveringthelimitsofthepossibleistoventurealittlewaypastthem…intotheimpossible."ArthurC.Clarke
56."Nothinggreateversucceededthefirsttime.Itwasalwaysafterrepeatedfailures,falls,frustrations,criticismsandselfdoubtsthatthehumanspiritarisestoachievegreatness."Unknown
57.Goddidn'tpromisedayswithoutpain,laughterwithoutsorrow,orsunwithoutrain,butHedidpromisestrengthfortheday,comfortforthetears,andlightfortheway.IfGodbringsyoutoit,Hewillbringyouthroughit.
-Unknown
58.Ifyoudon'tlikesomething,changeit.
Ifyoucan'tchangeit,changeyourattitude.
Don'tcomplain.
~MayaAngelou
59.Lifeisnostraightandeasycorridoralongwhichwetravelfreeand
unhampered,butamazeofpassages,throughwhichwemustseekourway,lostandconfused,nowandagaincheckedinablindalley.Butalways,ifwehavefaith,adoorwillopenforus,notperhapsonethatweourselveswouldeverhavethoughtof,butonethatwillultimatelyprovegoodforus.
~A.J.Cronin
60.Therearetwomistakesonecanmakealongtheroadtotruth…Notgoingalltheway,andnotstarting.
61.Remember,youreapwhatyousow,whatyouputintothelivesofotherscomesbackintoyourown.
62.Slowdownormaybespeedup,butrunyourracetothebestofyourability.
63.Whensomeonehurtsusweshouldwritedowninsandwherewindsofforgivenecaneraseitaway.Butwhensomeonedoessomethinggoodforus,wemustengraveitinstonewherenowindcanevereraseit.
64.Whenthedoorofhappinecloses,anotheropens,butoftentimeswelooksolongatthecloseddoorthatwedon’tseetheone,whichhasbeenopenedforus.
65.Happineisnotsomethingthathappenstousaftersomethingwewant—weusuallygetsomethingwewantafterwechoosetobehappy.
66.ThetruefriendwilldowhatMikedid,followingadistancebehind,givingyouspaceandpeace,butalwaysnearby,castingasilenteyeoneyoutomakesureyouareallright,thatyoudonotdoanythingsilly,makingsureheisaroundifyouneedhim,andbeingreadytopickyoushouldyoufallanytime,towipeyourtearsshouldtheyflow.
67.Eachstepofmyworkinspiredmetokeeponworkingprovingonceagainthatbreakingupalargeproblemintosmallpartscaneasetheworkloadandmaximizesthepossibilityoffindingasolutionfaster.
68.Theeasiestpathtojobsucceistoincorporateyourbesttalentsandstrengthsintoyourwork.Achievingwealthandcareersuccearebyproductsofexcellingatyourbestskills.
69.Ifyoujustdivein,though,you’llbesurprisedathowfastyougetthingsdone.Remember,thebesttimetoplanttreewas20yearsago.Thesecondbesttimeisnow.
70.Wesaidwewoulddoit,andwedid.That’sthecan-dospiritthatmakesuswhoweare.
71.Whetherit’safamilymember,somebodyatwork,oryourbestfriendwho’shurtyoubadly,putyourselfintheirshoesandtreatthemthewayyouwouldwanttobetreated,eveniftheydon’tdeserveit.
72.Ifyou’veheardsomethingyoudidn’twanttohear,rememberitmay
notbe100%true.Solightenup.Ifit’snoturgent,putoffthinkingaboutitforacoupleofdays.Forgivethepersonwhowrongedyou;don’tforget,you’redoingthisforyourself,too.Provetoyourselfthatyoucanpracticewhatyoubelieve.Trytobeasunderstandingofothersasyouwouldwantthemtobeofyou.
73.Therewillalwaysbelosersandwinners.Actaccordingtohowyouwanttofeelaboutyourselfwhenallissaidanddone.Don’tjudgewhatothersdoifyoudon’twantthemtojudgeyou.
74.Remember,whatotherpeopledoistheirresponsibility.Don’tletthemcauseyoutocarryagrudgeandlettheiractionsweighyoudown.Theyarenotresponsibleforyouractions,nomatterwhattheydo.Youare.
75.Ifsomeonehassaidsomethinguntrueaboutyouordonesomethingintentionallytohurtyou,wishgoodthingsforthatperson“evenifyoudon’tfeellikeit.Askforthemwhatyoudesireforyourself,anditwilldrawthosethingstoyou.
76.Ifyou’vemadeamistakeordisappointedyourselforothers,apologizequicklyandearnestly;that’sallyoucando.Letyourremorseteachyouhowtohavecompassionforotherswhentheymakemistakes.Nobody’sperfect,eventhoughwealltrytobe.Ifsomeonecan’tacceptyourapology,that’sokay,too.Justdotherightthingandgoon.
77.Talkleandlistenmore;youcouldlearnsomethingaboutothersandaboutyourself.Ifyoufeellikeyelling,gooutsideandthrowrocksonthecementinstead.Takeawalkor,betteryet,sing...itwillputamelodybackinyourlife.
78.Ifyouthinksomeoneismakingfunofyouorsomeoneyoulove,disarmthem,notwithyourfist,butwithyourbestsmile.Givethemsomethingtheydon’tknowhowtogive.Speaktothem;bebold.Askthattheybeblessedandyou’llbeblessed,too.Forgiveneisapowerfulthing;itwillhelpyourbodyandsoul.Don’tletanyonecauseyoutoactthewaythey’veactedtowardyou,andrememberthattheyhavearighttodowhatevertheychoosealso.
79.Don’ http://www.zzlgroo.com ecommonsenseandunderstandingtoprocethem.Don’treactjustfromyourfeelings;respondwithmaturityratherthanchildishhabit.Youwon’tregretit.
80.Getintouchwiththepersonyouwanttobeandbecomethat.Listentoyourheart...youcanfindtheanswertheretoeveryquestionyouhave.Remember,nomatterhowyou’retreated,justtreatothersthewayyouwouldwanttobetreatedwhenyourfeelingsaregettingtrampledon.